Friday, April 24, 2009

How I told him.

Well, my friend @MrsPRD wrote a blog awhile back about how she told her husband the good news about being pregnant, and said she loved hearing other women's stories about how they told their husbands, so this is what I did.

Well, Marcos and I had been trying to get pregnant for about 6 months, so pregnancy tests were not a stranger in our house. I was driving home from school one day, feeling exhausted and I had been very emotional that whole week (I just didn't feel like myself). So I decided to stop at Super Target for a pregnancy test (The cheap, Target brand of course.) I got home, took the test, and saw a VERY faint line... but anytime I had taken this kind of test, there was never any kind of line. So right away I was like, "Oh my gosh, is this real? I don't believe it." 

So I went to Wal Mart right after that to purchase the more expensive brand. Got home, took the test, and there was another line. Marcos was still not home yet but I didn't want to just tell him, I wanted to do something special, so I went that whole night knowing, without even telling my husband. It was torture!

The next morning after Marcos left for work, I took the other test (#3) and when that one also read positive, I went to Target to buy a little bib that said "I love Daddy" and a Clear Blue test that Marcos could easily understand if I showed him. I got the bib in Blue because I figured that's a little more neutral than pink. Okay, so I ended up taking like 5 tests before I even told my husband... but I just still couldn't believe it!

So when Marcos got home, I gave him a little bag and said,"Here honey, I got you something today because it was on sale". He began opening the bag and I kept giggling and he kept looking at me and saying "What is wrong with you?" 

Then he pulled out the bib and the test that clearly said, "Pregnant" and looked at me in disbelief and said, "You're pregnant?!" (He had no idea what was coming since I had already told him a little white lie and said that I started my period already.) Of course he was just as excited as me but we still could not believe that we had made a baby!

So that's the story! We also bought bibs that said, "I love Grandma & Grandpa" to surprise both our parents with. Of course, both of your moms cried! But we are all so very excited.

I am currently 12 weeks and just now starting to feel morning sickness. I went almost the whole first trimester without it, but it's hitting me now. But I am so blessed to have this baby growing inside of me and I wouldn't change the experience for the world! 

Two weeks ago we got to see our baby swimming around on the sonogram screen and got to hear the little heart beat. Our next appointment is in two weeks.


6 comments:

Samantha Haverlock said...

Mindy, I almost started crying when I read this because I'm just so excited for you guys and blessed to have you in my life! I love you!!!

Lindy PRD said...

Yay! I am so happy for your pregnancy! Seeing the baby jump around on the ultrasound when you can't feel it yet is crazy, huh? When we saw our baby around 11 weeks we were so surprised that he was moving so much.

It must have been so hard to wait overnight to tell Marcos. It's hard to believe that the bib you bought to surprise him with will be hanging around your baby's neck next year :) So cool. Keep us updated!

Mindy Clark said...

@ Sam: aww thanks friend. I can't believe You, Amber, and I are all gonna be married women and then soon you and Amber will be having babies on the way... seems like yesterday that we were little piggy tailed girls swimming at my moms apartments and picking up cans to get free Thrifty ice cream =)

Mindy Clark said...

@ Lindy: I know it was the craziest thing I we both had aver seen. I thought we would have been emotional.. but we were actually like two little kids giggling in disbelief at the sight of our baby swimming and I couldn't even feel it. We are so excited for you guys too and can't wait to meet your little guy! How fun this is and what a blessing from God!

twin power mommy ♥ said...

What an awesome story!
It made me smile soooo much!

I want to see you so i can give you a hug.

Are you showing a belly yet?!!

Amber Reveal said...

You need to post weekly belly pics so I can see them!!! At least until I get my Mac and we can chat and see each other. I loved reading this, as it made me smile like it did when you told me!!! I love and miss you best friend. You are going to be a beautiful mother and I can't wait to experience all of this with you.